Lying Game

You know the person with whom you are talking to is lying. Do you confront them or let them continue?

Well I am pretty sure that everyone in the world has told a lie or two in their day. Simple white lies aren’t the end of the world. It’s when someone continually makes lies up in their head to the point that they believe it is true, that is the problem. It’s even more of a problem when the person they are talking to knows that it is a lie. The question is never do you confront them, but when. If I know someone is lying right off the bat, I am going to let them dig themselves into a hole. One where I can make sure they feel terrible about when it’s time to make it known. Does that make me a bad person? Not at all. Karma is a bitch and if you are going to lie to my face then I am going to make you feel bad down the road. Sometimes I am too trusting of people, maybe that’s how I was raised to be. To give everyone a chance and sometimes a second one if I think that it is deserved. But after that, there really is no use. If you can continually lie to someone then you don’t care about them, then why would you want to keep around people that aren’t going to make you better? People that drag you down with lies and shitty attitudes.
But to answer the prompt, I wait when I know someone is lying, I wait until the perfect moment when I can crush them and everything that they have told me. Don’t mistake my politeness for weakness, because it can change very quickly if I know what’s up.

Waiting

Waiting…

Now I am not sure if this what I am supposed to write about for this topic but this is how I see it.

This is one of the hardest things for anyone to do.  Wait.  No matter what it is for, waiting for it is so hard.  They say that waiting for something just makes it better, but sometimes I am not so sure.  Also, at what point do you stop waiting and just drop it?  At what point is waiting just not worth it? This is something that I am struggling with right now.  And I think that the hardest part is waiting for the unknown.  I honestly have no idea what I am waiting for and I am really not sure if I should be waiting at all.  I mean I basically made her wait for me to do a few things that would ultimately help things out and I never did follow through on my word.  So what makes me believe that waiting for something that might not be there is even something I should do? And my honest answer to that question is “I have no fucking clue”. I honestly have no idea what I am doing.  I go out and have fun with friends and everything but deep down inside there is a hole.  And I do not know what to truly do about it.  Do I wait and see if something changes? Do I find someone else to fill that void and forget my past.  Waiting has been the hardest part about the last few weeks because I do not know what to do and everyone keeps telling me 100 different things to do about it.  Either way, waiting isn’t seeming to make any sense right now.